Saturday, November 16, 2013

Common Regrets of the Dying


Common Regrets of the Dying - Australian palliative care nurse, Bronnie Ware.

For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives.

People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learnt never to underestimate someone's capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them. 

When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five: 


1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me. 

This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. 

It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.


2. I wish I didn't work so hard. 

This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence. 

By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle. 


3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.

Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result. 

We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win. 


4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends. 

Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying. 

It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships. 


5. I wish that I had let myself be happier. 

This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called 'comfort' of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again. 

When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying. 


Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.

Source: http://www.nextavenue.org/blog/9-most-common-regrets-living-and-dying-and-what-do-about-them


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Based on this article, Bronnie has now released a full length book titled The Top Five Regrets of the Dying - A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing. It is a memoir of her own life and how it was transformed through the regrets of the dying people she cared for. This inspiring book is available internationally through Hay House.


25 major discourses of The Buddha


25 major discourses of The Buddha followed by brief introduction and comprehensive outline below


  1. Sutta 1 The Roof of all Things
  2. Sutta 2 All the Taints
  3. Sutta 7 Simile of the Cloth
  4. Sutta 9 Right View
  5. Sutta 10 Foundations of Mindfulness
  6. Sutta 18 The Honeyball
  7. Sutta 22 Simile of the Snake
  8. Sutta 26 The Noble Search
  9. Sutta 28 Greater Discourse on the Elephant’s Footprint
  10. Sutta 29 Greater Discourse on the Simile of the Heartwood
  11. Sutta 37 Shorter Discourse on the Destruction of Craving
  12. Sutta 39: Greater Discourse at Assupura
  13. Sutta 44: Shorter Discourse on Questions and Answers
  14. Sutta 46: Discourse on Way of Undertaking Things
  15. Sutta 62: Greater Discourse to Rahula
  16. Sutta 70: Discourse at Kitagiri
  17. Sutta 86: Discourse to Angulimala
  18. Sutta 101: Discourse at Devedaha
  19. Sutta 115: Discourse on the Many Kinds of Elements
  20. Sutta 118 Mindfulness of Breathing
  21. Sutta 121 Shorter Discourse on Emptiness
  22. Sutta 137 Exposition of the Sixfold Base
  23. Sutta 139: Discourse on the Exposition of Non-Conflict
  24. Sutta 140: Discourse on the Exposition of the Elements
  25. Sutta 148: Discourse on the Six Sets of Six.
     

Very Brief Introduction to 40 discourses of the 152 discourses of Middle Length Discourses of the Buddha.

Sutta (discourse) number:
1. The Buddha explained the basis of all phenomena including elements, sentient beings, angles, the seen, the heard, thought, oneness and diversity and reality. He said that that the uninstructed practitioner cannot see clearly.
2. The Buddha pointed to what intoxicates our mind and points to seven specific practices to eradicate the problems of the mind. The first of the seven is mindfulness…
3. The Buddha explained the importance of a life committed to awakening, and not to material things. Sariputta encouraged solitude and deep meditation.
4. The Buddha said that if we live in the jungle with pure thoughts, words and deeds, then we won’t invite harm and danger to ourselves.
5. Sariputta refers to four kinds of individuals.
6. This discourse encourages development of ethics, meditative concentration and wisdom instead of desire for gain and fame. One should see the danger in the slightest faults, and develop restraint in use of the senses.
7. In the simile of the cloth, the Buddha said only the clean cloth can totally absorb dye so a clean mind can absorb the dharma.
8. Insight (Vipassana) dissolved egotism and worldliness. Deep meditation leads to bliss and happiness. Wholesome volitions lead to wholesome results. If we are lost in the unwholesome, we cannot help others immersed in the same condition.
9. Exploration of right view. What is unwholesome is motivated by greed, negativity and delusion. Right view comprehends the Four Noble Truths while neither clinging to an eternity view for self nor annihilation view.
10. This much loved discourse explore the significance of the application of mindfulness to body, feelings, states of mind and Dharma for overcoming grief and despair, for exploring the noble path and for realization of liberation.
11. The Buddha made the claim that the Four Noble Ones only exist in his teachings, and nowhere else.
12. The Buddha said that Sunnakhatta was not intellectually clear enough to comment on the Buddha’s virtues. He said of the destinations for those with unhealthy beliefs.
13. The Buddha refuted the view that the austere yogis taught the same path and dharma. The Buddha showed the danger in the pursuit of pleasure.
14. Why greed, hate and delusion cause suffering.
15. Mogallana speaks of 16 kinds of stubbornness
16. Given in Savatthi, the Buddha speak of five mental thorns – doubt in triple gem, practice and ill will to other yogis and the five fetters that obscure liberation.
17. Madhupindika Sutta. A prince asked the Buddha what he taughter. He replied his teachings were ungraspable- not in conflict with the world, not caught up in impressions, no doubts and no desire for existence.
18. This discourse explored psychological processes with particular emphasis on papanca – namely the proliferation of thought mixed in with projections, and projections upon projections.
19. Ways to overcome unwholesome thoughts such as seeing impermance, metta and guidance from a teacher.
20. To be established in metta, so there is no loss of temper, even a saw cuts off our limbs.
21. Alagaddupama Sutta. Buddha refutes view of his teaching includes pursuit of sensual pleasure. He gives the simile of the snake catcher and the raft.
24. Rathavinitia Sutta. Sariputta relates seven stages of purity.
25. Simile of the hunter. Compared to mara.
26. The Buddha speaks of his search for Truth and knowing a noble pursuit rather than engaging in an ignoble pursuit.
27. In the simile of the elephants footprint, the Buddha said one should follow the elephant to see it to know its size, know just rely on the footprint. The discourse gives the detail of the training for the dedicated practitioner.
28. Sariputta says all other animals footprints are within the footprint of the elephant – so are all wholesome dharmas.
29. Given at Raghir, the Buddha uses the simile of a great tree possessed of heartwood, sapwood, inner bark and outer bark, twigs and leaves In other words we can wander in the forest for the pith of the tree and mistake gain, fame, ethics or meditative concentration.
37. This is a brief discourse by the Buddha on the destruction of craving--an important one to contemplate The Buddha tells Sakka that ‘nothing is worth clinging to’ – due to change - the very pith of the Buddha’s teachings.
39. Sati claimed that the same consciousness migrates. The Buddha refuted this and said it arises out of conditions and there is no consciousness without conditions.
44. Dhammadina, a nun, explains the arising of belief in personality depends on the self identifying with any of the five aggregates.
46. The Buddha speaks of four ways to undertake action and tells listeners to ‘attend closely.”
62. in Rajghir, the Buddha encourages his son to develop mindfulness of breathing and to see whatever arises as “not mine, this I am not, this is not myself.”
70. The Buddha explains there are seven kinds of noble ones in the world.
86. The transformation experience of Angulimala, the terrorist.
101. The Buddha refutes the view that what we experience now has been caused by our past actions.
115. The Buddha says the wise person understands the elements, dependent arising, the conditioned and the unconditioned.
118. Explanation of the 16 steps of mindfulness of breathing leading to liberation.
139. What leads to conflict and what leads to non-conflict. On the happiness and unhappiness of the householder and the yogi.
140. Buddha meets with Pukhusati, a recluse in a potter’ A sage is not overcome with conceiving.
148. An explanation of sense experience and the conditions for its arising.
From: Middle Length Discourses
translated by Bhikkhu Bodhi and Bhikkhu Nanamoli
1420 pages
Wisdom Publications,199 Elm Street
Somerville, MA 02144, USA.


Outline of 25 Middle Length Discourses

SUTTA 1: THE ROOT OF ALL THINGS
The Buddha explained the basis of all phenomena including elements, sentient beings, angles, the seen, the heard, thought, oneness and diversity and reality. He said that that the uninstructed practitioner cannot see clearly.

The Buddha analyses four types of individuals in the world from the standpoint of the Dharma.
  1. Untaught ordinary person, who perceives everything as reality without any understanding
  2. The noble dharma student who knows liberation but with tendencies to work on
  3. The fully liberated one free from arising of such tendencies.
  4. The fully liberated, and fully enlightened one, who teaches the Dharma

This sutta calls upon us to explore the way we perceive our experiences and relationship to life, and the way we conceive of it.

The ordinary, uninstructed person, gets caught up in various perceptions treating each one as reality. (Earth can refer to things, body etc)   
The earth is me.
I am in the earth.
I am separate from earth.
The earth is mine.
He or she takes pleasure in grasping onto the earth.

Why does one perceive in this way?
Because I have not fully understood, including the most profound of experiences such as realizing our relationship to Nirvana.
Nirvana is in me.
I am in Nirvana.
I am separate from Nirvana.
Nirvana is mine.
He or she takes pleasure in grasping onto Nirvana.
Why does one perceive in this way? Because it is not fully understood.

Whereas a noble student in higher training he or she will perceive in this way:
The earth is not me.
I am not in earth.
I am not separate from the earth.
The earth is not mine.
I do not take pleasure in grasping onto the earth.

Why do I perceive in this way? So I may fully understand
Nirvana is not me.
I am not in Nirvana.
I am not separate from Nirvana.
Nirvana is not mine. I do not delight in Nirvana.
Why do I perceive in this way? So I may fully understand it

For the noble student – the second kind of person - there is still conceit and craving in the mind but he or she knows what liberation is.

The third kind of person is a fully liberated one (arahant), who has understood the way things truly are and has seen through conceit and craving.

The fourth kind of person is the fully enlightened one who also teaches the Dharma.

SUTTA 2: ALL THE TAINTS

The Buddha pointed to what intoxicates our mind and points to seven specific practices to eradicate the problems of the mind. The first of the seven is mindfulness…
The taints referred to are:
  1. Craving for sensual pleasures,
  2. Craving for being
  3. Unwise views
  4. Ignorance.

Basically, "when one attends unwisely, unarisen taints arise and arisen taints increase. When one attends wisely, unarisen taints do not arise and arisen taints are abandoned."

Notes
Essentially, the Buddha is concerned with the non-arising of sensual desire, of being, and of ignorance.

There are four perversions (of perception). These are
seeing the impermanent as permanent,
seeing what is unsatisfactory as pleasurable,
what is not self as self
what is foul as beautiful

SEVEN WAYS TO ABANDON THE TAINTS:

  1. Seeing: Seeing refers to seeing of what arises from within in terms of past, present and future, to understand what is fit for attention and what is unfit for attention.
  2. Restraining: Restraining the use of the eye, nose, tongue, body and mind faculty.
  3. Using: Wise use of the clothes, food, resting place and medicine. Using each for protection.
  4. Enduring: Endures cold, heat, hunger, and discomfort of the physical body, painful bodily experiences, and ill-spoken and unwelcome words.
  5. Avoiding: Dangerous animals and environment; placing oneself in vulnerable situations, associating with unwise people   
  6. Removing: Arisen thoughts of sensual desire, ill-will, cruelty, evil, unwholesome states.
  7. Developing: the seven factors of enlightenment, namely mindfulness, inquiry, energy, happiness, calmness, meditative concentration and equanimity.
     

SUTTA 7: SIMILE OF THE CLOTH

In the simile of the cloth, the Buddha said only the clean cloth can totally absorb dye so a clean mind can absorb the dharma.
The Buddha compares a piece of cloth that has become stained to the mind. He then lists the stains in the mind as covetousness, greed, ill will, anger, revenge, contempt, domineering attitude, envy, avarice, deceit, fraud, obstinacy, presumption, conceit, arrogance, vanity, negligence.

If a cloth were pure and bright, it would look well dyed and pure in color. Why? Because of the purity of the cloth.
With direct knowledge of the imperfection of the mind, one abandons it, and this brings full confidence in Buddha, Dharma and Sangha. One gains ‘inspiration in the meaning of the dharma’ bringing gladness, happiness, calmness and concentration.

As a result of non-harming, one naturally abides with a mind imbued with the Four Divine Abidings.
‘He abides pervading everywhere with loving kindness,
So above, below, around and everywhere,
And to all as to himself,
He abides pervading the all-encompassing world
With a mind imbued with loving-kindness,
Abundant, exalted, immeasurable,
Without hostility, and without ill will.’

Similarly with the other three Divine Abidings
  • Compassion,
  • Appreciative joy
  • Equanimity.

He understands thus: ‘There is this, there is the inferior, there is the superior, and beyond there is an escape from this whole field of perception.’

A Brahmin listening to the Buddha said that others say one should go to bathe in the sacred river in Bodh Gaya. The Buddha replies: A fool may there forever bathe, yet will not purify dark deeds. If you live without causing any harm, what need is there to go to Bodh Gaya, ‘for any well will be your Gaya.’

The Brahmin responds with the much loved words that the Buddha has ‘made the Dharma clear in many ways, as though he were turning upright what had been overthrown, revealing what was hidden, showing the way to one who was lost, or holding up a lamp in the dark for those with eyesight to see forms. I got for refuge to the Buddha, Dharma and Sangha.’


SUTTA 9: RIGHT VIEW

Exploration of right view. What is unwholesome is motivated by greed, negativity and delusion. Right view comprehends the Four Noble Truths while neither clinging to an eternity view for self nor annihilation view.
Sariputta speaks about right view and what is wholesome and the root of the wholesome, and what is unwholesome and the root of unwholesome. He says
The Buddha names the ways in which a noble disciple is “one with right view”.
A noble disciple needs to understand the unwholesome and the root of the unwholesome, the wholesome and the root of the wholesome

The 10 unwholesome courses of action:
  1. killing 2. stealing 3. sexual misconduct 4. false speech 5. malicious speech 6. harsh speech 7. gossip 8. covetousness 9. ill-will 10).wrong view.

  1. The root of these unwholesome actions is greed, hatred and delusion.
The 10 wholesome courses of actions are non-greed, non-hatred and non-delusion. When this is understood one abandons the underlying tendency to the view and conceit ‘I am.” and here and now makes an end to suffering.
There are 4 kinds of nutriment,:
  1. physical food for the physical body,
  2. contact,
  3. mental volition
  4. consciousness

The Buddha says Four Noble Truths
  1. Suffering,
  2. Causes,
  3. Cessation and
  4. The Way
applies to each of the 12 links of Dependent Arising. The Way is the Noble Eightfold Path, namely Right Understanding, Right Intention, Right Speech, Right Action, Right Livelihood, Right Effort, Right Mindfulness and Right Meditative Concentration.

So, for example
  1. Ageing and Death
  2. Causes
  3. Cessation
  4. The Way

  1. aging and death
  2. birth
  3. being—three kinds of being: sense-sphere being, fine- material being and immaterial being.
  4. clinging—clinging to sensual pleasures, views, rules and rituals, and self
  5. craving—six classes of craving: craving for forms, sounds, smells, flavors, tangibles, craving for mind-objects
  6. feeling—classes of feeling are pleasant, unpleasant or neither, worldly or spiritual, body and mind
  7. contact—or initial impressions through the senses and the mind
  8. the sixfold base—six bases: eye-base, ear, nose tongue, body, mind-base
  9. name and form—5 mental factors - feeling, perception, volition, contact, attention; materiality -- the four elements and the material which is formed from them
  10. consciousness—six classes of consciousness: eye-consciousness, ear, nose, tongue, body, mind-consciousness
  11. formations—3 kinds of formations: bodily, verbal, mental
  12. ignorance - is not knowing the Four Noble Truths


SUTTA 10: THE FOUNDATIONS OF MINDFULNESS

This much loved discourse explore the significance of the application of mindfulness to body, feelings, states of mind and Dharma for overcoming grief and despair, for exploring the noble path and for realization of liberation. It is the primary discourse for Insight Meditation (Vipassana).
The Buddha says apply mindfulness to see
  1. body as a body.
  2. feelings as feelings,
  3. states of mind as states of mind
  4. Dharma as Dharmaa.

One contemplate-these four objects of mindfulness
  • internally (deeply),
  • externally, (grossly)
  • arising factors and
  • passing factors
  • simply established in knowing ‘there is body’, or "there is feeling", or "there is a state of mind", or "there is dharma.
  • mindfulness is applied to the extent necessary for bare knowing and mindfulness so that one abides independent, not clinging to anything whatsoever.

1. One applies mindfulness to the body through
  • breathing
  • the four postures
  • movement
  • parts of the body
  • elements
  • death

2. One applies mindfulness to feelings
pleasant, painful and neither pleasant or painful feelings, body and mind
worldly feelings and spiritual feelings and one contemplates internally, externally etc.

3. One applies mindfulness to States of Mind
  1. Mind affected by lust and unaffected
  2. Hate and unaffected by hate
  3. Delusion and unaffected by it
  4. Contracted and Distracted
  5. Exalted and unexalted
  6. Surpassed and unsurpassed
  7. Concentrated and unconcentrated
  8. Liberated and unliberated

4. One applied mindfulness to Dharma
five hindrances; five aggregates;
six sense bases; seven factors of enlightenment,
Four Noble Truths.

The Buddha concludes that if the Four Foundations of Mindfulness are developed for a week
one could expect full liberation or liberation with only a ‘trace of clinging.’

See Heart of Buddhist Meditation by Bhikkhu Nyanaponika (published by Rider Books, London)
for commentary on this sutta


SUTTA 18: THE HONEYBALL

This discourse explored psychological processes with particular emphasis on papanca – namely the proliferation of thought mixed in with projections, and projections upon projections.

After the Buddha expounds, Maha Kaccana gives the detailed meaning.

Three major conditions for papanca are craving, conceit, and views. The mind sees in terms of ‘I’ ‘mine’ and ‘myself’.

The Buddha encourages one to understand and track the process, namely:

  1. Dependent on the eye and forms, eye-consciousness arises.
  2. The meeting of eye, form and eye-consciousness is called contact.
  3. With contact as the condition, there is feeling.
  4. What one feels, that one perceives.
  5. What one perceives, that one thinks about.
  6. What one thinks about, that one mentally proliferates (papanca)
  7. With what one has mentally proliferated as the source, perceptions and notions tinged by mental proliferation (i.e. projections) beset one with respect to past, future, and present forms.
The sutta explains in detail the process of dependent arising that leads to papanca. Unless there was manifestation of the senses, contact feelings, perceptions, it would be impossible for thinking to arise and mental proliferation and projections to take place.

He also points out that there can be papanca about papanca. That means proliferation of various projections about one’s proliferations and projections.



See Concept and Reality by Bhikkhu Nanananda
published by the Buddhist Publication Society,
Kandy, Sri Lanka,
for a commentary on this discourse.


SUTTA 22: THE SIMILE OF THE SNAKE

The Buddha points out the obstructions that block liberation. He says that the meaning of the Dharma must be examined so as to gain a ‘reflective acceptance ‘of them. One does not learn the Dharma for the sake of criticizing others. The sutta is divided into several important sections., each one standing by itself.

He said grasping unwisely onto the Dharma was like grabbing a poisonous snake by the tail – meaning that if the teachings are wrongly grasped they will cause suffering. If we correctly take hold of the teachings they ‘serve our welfare and benefit for a long time.’

In the famous simile of the raft, the Buddha says there is a great expanse of water, whose near shore is dangerous and fearful. The far shore is safe and free of fear. One builds a raft to carry one over the water but need not carry the raft on one’s head when arriving at the other shore. In other words, the Dharma is not worth clinging to.

A noble student of the dharma understands each of the five aggregates "This is not mine, this I am not, this is not my self". Regarding in this way, one is not agitated.
To be free of agitation about what is non-existent externally (loss or non-acquisition of things); one does not think "I had it! I've lost it! May I have it! I do not get it!”

To be free of agitation about what is non-existent internally: not to have the view "This is self, this is the world; after death I shall be permanent, everlasting, eternal, not subject to change; I shall endure as long as eternity".

When one hears the Dharma, for the elimination of all standpoints, and underlying tendencies, for the destruction of craving, for cessation for Nirvana, one does not think thus. "So I shall be annihilated! So I shall perish! I shall be no more!" One neither clings to existence nor non-existence.

Seeing "not myself" in the 5 aggregates, one becomes disenchanted, dispassionate, and liberated.
The fully liberated one is untraceable here and now (since the ‘I’ is not found either in or outside the five aggregates).   

In a famous remark, the Buddha says: ‘What I teach is suffering and the cessation of suffering.’

If someone scolds or harasses us, we feel no bitterness. If someone reveres or venerates us, we feel no joy or elation. We simply teach what we know to be true.   

He encourages the ‘letting go of what is not yours’ – namely body, feelings, perceptions formations (thoughts) and consciousness.

He concludes that the Dharma is ‘clear and open.’

SUTTA 26: THE NOBLE SEARCH

The Buddha speaks of his search for Truth and knowing a noble pursuit rather than engaging in an ignoble pursuit.

The Buddha says there are two kinds of search, one that is subject to birth, ageing, pain and death and the noble search for enlightenment that is not subject to birth and death.

"If I am subject to birth, aging, sickness, death, sorrow, and defilements, why should I seek that which is the same. And he names what is subject to these things. This is the ignoble search.

Then he says, what is the noble search: the unborn supreme security, “Nirvana; the unaging, the deathless, the sorrowless, the undefiled supreme security.” And to achieve Nirvana, one must “still all formations, relinquish all attachments, and destroy craving.]”
The Buddha then refers to his contact with two spiritual teachers, namely Alara Kalama and Uddaka Ramaputta. He says that he experienced their deepest teachings but felt the teachings had not gone far enough. (There was a duality of going into a deep experience and coming out of it).

The Buddha then describes his night under a tree by a river near Urevela (Bodh Gaya) where he realized the truth that was fully liberating.

He then felt that others were so caught up, it would be hard for them to understand the Dharma and so he felt it would be ‘wearying’ to teach it. But Brahma Sahampati said the famous one line ‘there are beings with little dust in their eyes.’

After seven weeks under the tree, the Buddha walked to Sarnath to give his first discourse to his five friends. He also speaks of the four jhanas and four formless realms of experience, liberation and going beyond Mara.

In liberation, one sits, walks stands and reclines without fear.    


SUTTA 28: GREATER DISCOURSE
ON THE SIMILE OF THE ELEPHANT'S FOOTPRINT

In the simile of the elephants footprint, the Buddha said one should follow the elephant to see it to know its size, not just rely on the footprint. The discourse gives detaisl of the training for the dedicated practitioner   
He also refers to the five aggregates “affected by clinging elements. .” and the world of the four elements that are usually described as “belonging to oneself and clung to”.

For each element it is said, both the internal and the external element, are simply the (earth, water, fire and air) element," When one sees with the view of not-self, this makes one dispassionate toward the elements.
If one is scolded or harassed, one can reflect: "There is a painful feeling at the ear door. Is it dependent or independent? It is dependent on contact. That contact is impermanent, that feeling is impermanent, perception, formations, and consciousness is impermanent." This makes one imperturbable.
Sאriputta encourages recollection of the Buddha, Dharma and Sangha to develop equanimity. He also reminds us about the limitations of the elements.
Earth—there comes a time when the earth element vanishes. Even this great earth element is impermanent, subject to destruction, disappearance, and change, what of this body, which lasts but a while?
Water, sometimes carrying away villages, countries, When water of the great oceans is abundant, sometimes it is not even ankle deep, not enough to wet a joint of a finger...what of this body, which lasts but a while?
Fire--can burn up villages, countries, and goes out due to lack of fuel only when it comes to a road, rock water, or and fair open space. Comes a time when one tries to make fire with cock's feathers and hide parings...what of this body which lasts just a while?
Air--sweeps away villages, countries. In the last month of the hot season when one seeks wind by means of a fan, even the strands of straw in the drip-fringe of the thatch do not stir...what of this body, which lasts but a while?
Just as when a space is enclosed by timber and creepers, grass, and clay, it comes to be termed "house", so too, when a space is enclosed by bones and sinews, flesh and skin, it comes to be termed 'material form.'"
Sאriputta goes through each aggregate and says, "In the material form, in what has thus come to be is included in the material form aggregate."
This means that "what has thus come to be" includes the entire complex of factors arisen by the way to all of the senses. What is the material form aggregate affected by clinging? It is the four great elements and the material form derived from the four great elements." This is everything right there.
Famous quote is then stated: "One who sees dependent arising sees the Dharma; one sees the Dharma sees dependent arising.
“These five aggregates affected by clinging are dependently arising. The removal of desire and lust for these five aggregates affected by clinging is the cessation of suffering.”


SUTTA 29: GREATER DISCOURSE
ON THE SIMILE OF THE HEARTWOOD

Given at Raghir, the Buddha said the Dharma is only taught for liberation – the inner pith, not for the branch of gain, fame, ethics or meditative concentration.

Given at Raghir, the Buddha uses the simile of a great tree possessed of heartwood, sapwood, inner bark and outer bark, twigs and leaves In other words we can wander in the forest for the pith of the tree and mistake gain, fame, ethics or meditative concentration.

The last paragraph is the summary of the entire sutta and is one of the most profound summaries of the Buddha’s teachings.

“The spiritual life does not have gain, honour, and renown for its benefit,
or the attainment of virtues for its benefit,
or the attainment of concentration for its benefit,
or knowledge and vision for its benefit.
But it is this unshakeable deliverance of mind
that the goal of the spiritual life, its heartwood, and its end.”

See Heartwood of the Bodhi Tree
By Ajahn Buddhadasa
Published by Wisdom Publications, Boston, USA
for an excellent commentary on this sutta.


SUTTA 37: SHORTER DISCOURSE
ON THE DESTRUCTION OF CRAVING

This is a brief discourse by the Buddha on the destruction of craving--an important one to contemplate The Buddha tells Sakka that ‘nothing is worth clinging to’ – the very essence of the Buddha’s teachings.

“When a bhikkhu has heard that nothing is worth adhering to,
he directly knows everything;
having directly known everything,
he fully understands everything;
having fully understood everything,
whatever feeling he feels,
whether pleasant or painful or neither-painful-nor-pleasant,
he abides contemplating impermanence in those feelings,
contemplating fading away,
contemplating cessation,
contemplating letting go.
Contemplating thus,
he does not cling to anything in the world.
When he does not cling, he is not agitated.
When he is not agitated, he attains Nirvana.”

‘Birth is destroyed, the spiritual life has been lived, what has to be done has been done, there is no more coming to any state of being.’ The Buddha concludes that liberation comes through the destruction of craving.


SUTTA 39: GREATER DISCOURSE AT ASSAPURA

Sati claimed that the same consciousness migrates. The Buddha refuted this and said it arises out of conditions and there is no consciousness without conditions.
The Buddha encourages spiritual practitioners to live up to their name as practitioners. He says practitioners need to show regret (hiri) for unskillful action and apprehension (ottapa) about repeating such behaviour in the future.

The Buddha taught for bodily, verbal and mental conduct to be pure, clear, open and restrained. He said also not to praise oneself, nor put down others in such matters.

“Do not fall short of the goal of liberation while there is more to be done.”

He gave the same message with regard to
a pure expression of right livelihood
to guarding the senses
moderation in eating

“Reflecting wisely, we will take food for neither amusement nor intoxication, nor for the sake of physical beauty and attractiveness but only for the endurance and continuance of the body, for ending discomfort and for assisting the spiritual life... I shall be healthy and blameless and live in comfort.”

The Buddha said: “We will be devoted to wakefulness day and night, sitting and walking and practicing to clear the mind of obstructive states.”

One applies mindfulness to every activity during the day including getting dressed, drinking, using the toilet, talking and keeping silent

One abandons the five hindrances – selfishness, anger, boredom/apathy, restlessness/anxiety and doubt/fear. The Buddha said to be free from the hindrances is comparable to experiencing the happiness of finally paying off a debt, getting released from prison or safely crossing a desert.

Through the practice, one can enter the four absorptions, come to direct knowledge about one’s past history, witness change and understand how people experience the fruits of their actions.

Finally there is the understanding that the “spiritual life has been lived, what had to be done has been done, there is no more becoming.”


SUTTA 44: SHORTER DISCOURSE OF QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS

Dhammadina, the nun, talks to her ex-husband about an essential understanding of the Dharma. 44. She explains the arising of belief in personality depends on the self identifying with any of the five aggregates.

She states that our concept of our personality is formed through which aspects of the five aggregates that we cling to. Thus the ending of the notion of having a personality ends with the clinging to any of the five aggregates.

Personality arises through seeing body, feelings, perceptions, thought formations and consciousness as self, or as possessing self, or in self, or self in the five aggregates. If we do not regard self and five aggregates as tied in some way to each other, then the concept of personality will not arise.

Dhammadina states that sila (ethics) consists of right speech, action and livelihood
Right effort, mindfulness and meditative concentration are the aggregate of meditative concentration (samadhi).
Right intention and understanding is the aggregate of wisdom.

The nun explains that unification of mind is meditative concentration.

She also explains that with pleasurable feelings there can be the underlying tendency towards desire, aversion underlying painful feelings and ignorance in feelings neither pleasant nor painful.
She tells her ex-husband that these underlying tendencies do not have to be abandoned but access to deep absorptions overcomes these tendencies.

Dhammadina then says the pleasurable and the painful are the counterpart of each other and ignorance is the counterpart of neither pleasant nor painful feelings. True knowledge is the counterpart of ignorance. Liberation is the counterpart of true knowledge and Nirvana is the counterpart of liberation.

The Buddha told Visakha he would have said the same thing.


SUTTA 46: GREATER DISCOURSE ON WAYS OF UNDERTAKING THINGS

The Buddha speaks of four ways of undertaking action and says, “attend closely to what I shall say.”

Those who have no regard for the Dharma do not know what should be followed and what should not be followed. As a result, disagreeable things increase for him. “This is what happens to one who does not see.”

The Buddha says we drink from what is offered without reflecting beforehand.

1. The way that is pleasant now and ripens in the future as pain (like a pleasant tasting poison).

2. The way that is painful now and ripens in the future as pain (like a painful poison)

3. The way that is painful now and ripens in the future as pleasant (like a painful medicine)

4. The way that is pleasant now and ripen in the future as pleasant (like a pleasant medicine)

He reminds listeners again that an ignorant person does not know what things should and should not be cultivated. A wise person knows.

In conclusion, the Buddha states: “When the sky is clear and cloudless, the sun rises above the earth dispelling all darkness from space leaving a shining radiance. So too the way of undertaking things that is pleasant now and ripens in the future as pleasant dispels teachings of the priests.”


SUTTA 62: GREATER DISCOURSE OF ADVICE TO RAHULA

After six years of leaving his wife, Yashodara, as a single mother, the Buddha resumed his responsibilities as a father. In this talk to Rahula, his son, the Buddha gives him meditative teachings to see the five aggregates with wisdom as “not mine, this I am not, this is not myself.”

He then encourages Rahula to meditate
on mindfulness of breathing
to see the body as the make up of elements, namely earth, water, fire, air and space
to develop meditation so that he is like the Earth – able to withstand excrement, spittle and abuse.
so that agreeable and disagreeable contacts “will not invade your mind.”

Develop loving kindness to abandon negativity
Develop compassion to abandon revenge
Develop appreciative joy to overcome discontent and envy
Develop equanimity to overcome aversion
Develop meditation on foulness to overcome desire
Develop meditation on impermanence to overcome conceit of “I am” and belief in continuity
Develop mindfulness of breathing for depths of calmness and happiness and
Develop complete letting go right to the point of the last breath of life.

Rahula was delighted with what his father told him.


SUTTA 70: DISCOURSE AT KITAGIRI

After encouraging moderation in eating, the Buddha says he teaches so that wholesome states of mind increase in the world and unwholesome decrease. He also explains that there are seven kinds of noble persons in the world. He speaks of the importance of saddha (trust, confidence).

1.Liberated both ways – through calm depths of meditation and insight
2. Liberated by wisdom

For advanced practitioners there are the:
1. Body witness. Has depth of meditation experiences, transcended forms, and some taints dissolved but still inner work to do.
2. Attained to view: Does not have depth of meditation experiences but through wisdom has transcended forms, some taints dissolved but still inner work to do.
3. Liberated by faith: His faith is “planted, rooted and established in the One who has Gone Beyond.”
4. Dharma Followers: Has an acceptance of the teachings through reflection.
5. Faith or Confidence followers: Has sufficient faith and love in the Buddha to cultivate necessary spiritual faculties. Enthusiasm arises, will power and through scrutinising the teachings he strives to realise the ultimate truth.

A faithful student who is intent on understanding the Buddha’s teachings, one of two fruits may be expected – either complete knowledge of liberation here and now or only a trace of clinging remaining.


SUTTA 86: DISCOURSE ON ANGULIMALA

This is the famous story of Angulimala, a murderer and robber, who cut off a finger of the victim and wore it as a garland.

Angulimala called on the Buddha to stop. “Stop recluse! Stop, recluse!

He said: While you are walking you tell me you have stopped
But now when I have stopped, you say I have not stopped.
I ask you now about the meaning:
How is that you have stopped and I have not?”

The Buddha said
You have no restraint towards things that live:
That is why I have stopped and you have not.”

The Buddha and Angulimala walked into Savatthi. King Pasenadi said “It is marvellous how the Buddha tames the untamed, brings peace to the unpeaceful. We ourselves could not tame him with force and weapons yet the Buddha has tamed him without force and weapons. And now we depart. We are busy and have much to do.

When on the streets alone the following day, people attacked Angulimala cutting his head open and tearing his clothes. Seeing what happened, the Buddha said to Angulimala: “Bear it. You are experiencing here and now the results of past deeds.

Angulimala said: “Who once did live in negligence
And then is negligent no more
He illuminates the world
Like the moon freed from a cloud.

“Do not give way to negligence
Nor seek delight in sensual pleasures
But meditate with diligence
So as to reach sublime happiness.”


SUTTA 101: DISCOURSE AT DEVEDAHA

The Buddha criticised those who claim that “whatever a person feels, all that is caused by what was done in the past.” He said they believe that by ending past actions (karma), by making no fresh actions, there will be no consequence in the future, so there will be no more action (karma). Through no karma, there will be the destruction of feeling and the destruction of suffering.

The Buddha then asked Nigantha, the founder of the Jain sect, who taught this: “ Do you know if you have exhausted your past karma? Do you know how much suffering you had in the past? Do you know how much suffering you have left to exhaust?

The Buddha said there are five things that may turn out in two different ways here and now. Faith (trust, confidence), approval, oral tradition, reason and reflective acceptance. The Buddha explained that none of the five justified Nigantha’s position abut exhausting past karma.

“You are experiencing painful, piercing feelings from your self-imposed exertion, and this is through ignorance, unknowing and delusion.”

The Buddha puts questions to Nigantha to show him the limitations of “exertion and striving” as a resolution to dealing with action (karma of body, speech and mind) and the results of such activities.

Can you make the results of an action that is here and now come later?
Can you make the results of an action that comes later arrive here and now?
Can you change the results of an action from pleasant to painful?
Can you change the result of an action from painful to pleasant?

The Buddha said:
If all pleasure and pain was caused by the past, then you must have all engaged in bad deeds to experience such pain.
If all pleasure and pain was caused by a Supreme God, then this God must be evil to create such painful feelings for people.
If caused by chance, then you must experience a lot of bad luck to go through painful feelings
If caused by birth and class, then you must have been born into a bad caste.
If caused by exertion, then we must be striving badly
If caused by our past deeds, then you should be censured for what you did in the past.

The Buddha speaks of the value of equanimity. If a man has an intense desire for a woman, and he sees her chatting, joking and laughing with another man, then sorrow and despair might arise in him. Why? Because his mind has become bound to her through intense desire. If he abandoned this desire, then he would also abandon the sorrow and despair.

He gives example of the arrowsmith, who exerts himself to make straight and workable the arrow. He applies heat to the arrow shaft. He would not need to do it again once the arrow has been made. Similarly when making the mind straight one does not have to keep exerting oneself. The purpose for which exertion took place has been achieved. The Buddha said that appropriate striving and exertion is useful to develop deep samadhi, recollection of the past, understanding of change and liberation from suffering.


SUTTA 115: DISCOURSE ON THE MANY KINDS OF ELEMENTS

The Buddha says that fears and troubles only arise for the foolish person, not for the wise person. The wise one understands the elements, dependent arising, the conditioned and the unconditioned.

He then explains 18 types of elements

eye, eye consciousness and forms
ear, ear consciousness and sounds
nose, nose consciousness and smells
taste, taste consciousness and flavours
body, body consciousness and tangible
mind element, mind consciousness and objects in the mind

Six types of elements
Earth, water, fire, air, space and consciousness
Six types of elements
pleasure, pain, joy, grief, equanimity and ignorance.
Six types of elements
sensual desire, renunciation, negativity, without negativity,
cruelty and without cruelty.

“When one knows and see the elements one is skilled in the elements.”

Three elements
sense sphere (everyday consciousness), fine material sphere (jhanas), immaterial elements (formless realms of experience).

Two elements
The condition and the unconditioned.

There is the possible and the impossible.

One with right view understands that no formation could be permanent. It is impossible. He also understands that it is impossible to treat anything as having any kind of ”self” but he understands that an ordinary person might treat something as having self.

One understands that it would be impossible to deprive his mother and father of their life or to cause physical harm to the Buddha or cause a schism in the sangha, or pursue another teacher but it is possible for an ordinary person to do this.

One understands that it is not possible for a woman (in the patriarchal, housebound culture at the time of a Buddha) to become a Buddha. (Buddhahood has no relationship to the biology of a human being).

One understands that it not possible for someone engaged in evil action can go to a heavenly destination after death.

One understands that it is not possible for someone engaged in good conduct can go to a hellish destination after
death. It is in this way that one can be skilled in what is possible and impossible.


SUTTA 118: MINDFULNESS OF BREATHING

This sutta explains the process of Deep Calmness (Samatha) Meditation, appearing as 16 steps, as a way to liberation.

One sits with body erect and establishes mindfulness in front of one.

There are then four tetrads.

  1. One is clear about breathing in and out long breaths
  2. One is clear about breathing in and out short breaths
  3. Experiencing the whole body
  4. Calming the whole body

  1. One breathes experiencing bliss
  2. One breathes experiencing joy
  3. Experiencing mental formations
  4. Calming mental formations

  1. Breathe in and out experiencing states of mind
  2. Breathe in and out gladdening the mind
  3. Breathe concentrating the mind
  4. Breathe liberating the mind

  1. breathing and contemplating impermanence
  2. breathing and contemplating fading away
  3. breathing and contemplating cessation
  4. breathing and contemplating letting go.

The Buddha says the practice of Mindfulness of Breathing fulfils the Four Foundations of Mindfulness and the Seven Factors of Enlightenment. This developed and cultivated fulfill true knowledge and liberation.

See Mindfulness with Breathing by
Ajahn Buddhadasa, published in Bangkok.


SUTTA 121: SHORTER DISCOURSE ON EMPTINESS (CULASUNNATA SUTTA)

The Buddha points to emptiness. He says that there is nothing that should disturb us that is not present.
There is only what is present in this moment. So it is empty of everything else. One sees what is not present is empty and what remains is present.

What is present does not have its own existence but is dependent on the perception of it. So it is also empty.

The Buddha tells Ananda that there is then a genuine, undistorted pure descent into Emptiness.

The Buddha then refers to this exploration of emptiness in terms of the palace, forest, people etc and also in the realms of profound experiences such as experience of infinite consciousness, infinite space etc.

Nothing has its own existence and everything is conditioned by other factors, ‘conditioned by life’
The Buddha then encourages Ananda to train himself to abide in pure emptiness.
At the end of the Sutta 122, the Buddha mentions that one should not go to a teacher just to listen to the discourses. One should go for talk that deals with the mind's release, direct knowledge, enlightenment and not turn away from such teachings.

One shows respect by wholeheartedly doing the practice and listening carefully to his or her teachings, since the teacher is wholeheartedly, out of compassion, giving the teachings for one's welfare, happiness and liberation.


SUTTA 137: EXPOSITION OF THE SIXFOLD BASE

In this sutta the Buddha gives a range of teachings suitable for reflection and understanding

One explores an object of one of the six sense doors that produces joy, grief and equanimity.

"36 positions of being" (18 positions of the householder and 18 for the renunciate) all based in the exploration of joy, grief and equanimity through each of the six senses (including mind).

Householder's joy: When an object is cognized by one of the six sense bases that is wished for, desirable, associated with the world, or in the mind, joy arises.

Renunciate's joy: Knowing impermanence, change, fading away, seeing with wisdom as it actually is, past or present, joy arises.

Householder's grief: cognizing an object at any of the six doors that wasn't acquired, has passed, changed or ceased, past or present, grief arises.

Renunciate's grief: Seeing impermanence...one feels longing for the supreme liberation

Householder's equanimity: the equanimity of unknowing; with each of the six objects, one is blind to the danger; It "does not transcend the form, but sticks to the form like flies to a ball of sugar."

Renunciate's equanimity: equanimity based on insight; no lusting after or aversion to any of the six objects; When one knows impermanence, this transcends the object.

The Buddha says the renunciate sees the six kinds of joy and abandons the grief or longing. He sees the six kinds of equanimity to abandon the joy. He sees the six kinds of equanimity that is unified to abandon worldly equanimity.

In the next sutta, the Maha Kaccana says:
“Agitated states of mind, born of preoccupation arise
and remain obsessing his mind.
Because his mind is obsessed,
he is anxious, distressed and concerned,
and due to clinging he becomes agitated.
This is how there is agitation due to clinging.”

When one is ‘skilled and disciplined in the Dharma, such mental states born of preoccupation do not arise.’


SUTTA 139: DISCOURSE ON THE EXPOSITION OF NON-CONFLICT

The Buddha explains what leads to and what does not lead to conflict.

What to leads to non-conflict

1. Not to pursue pleasure that is vulgar, coarse, ignoble and unbeneficial. It is beset with suffering, vexation and despair.
2. Not to engage in self-hate. It is also painful, ignoble and unbeneficial.
3. Not to praise oneself and put down others for their failures.
4. Instead of claiming that those who pursue vulgar pleasures or engage in self-hate are on the “wrong path” one simply explains that such pursuits are “beset with suffering.”

The jhanas are referred to as the joy of renunciation, the joy of seclusion and the joy of inner peace and should be developed and cultivated, not feared.

One develops speech that is “true, correct and beneficial, including sharp speech knowing it is the right time. One develops speech that is unhurried, distinct and easy to understand. One does not override local usage of language.

“We shall know the state with conflict and we shall know the state without conflict, and knowing, these, we shall enter upon the state without conflict.

The listeners were delighted with what the Buddha said.


SUTTA 140 EXPOSITION OF THE ELEMENTS

Spending a night in a potter’s workshop, the Buddha met Pukkhusati, who followed the Buddha’ s teachings but had never met the Buddha. The Buddha did not reveal his identity to Pukkhusati but gave him teachings.
He explained that the `’tides of conceiving do not sweep over one who stands upon the elements.’ He is a ‘sage of peace’ who lives this way.

The Buddha then states the Six Elements are earth, water, fire air, space and consciousness.

The Six Bases of Contact are eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body and contact with the mind.

18 kinds of Inquiry into the Mind (manovicara)
On seeing form with the eye, one inquires into what produces joy, grief and equanimity
On hearing sounds with the eye, one inquires into what produces, joy, grief and equanimity
On smelling odours with the nose, one inquires into produces joy, grief and equanimity
On tasting flavours with the tongue, one inquires into what produces joy, grief and equanimity
On cognizing mental objects with the mind, one inquires into what produces joy, grief and equanimity.

The Buddha also says the person who has swept away the tide of conceiving has found Four Foundations, namely
  1. The foundation of wisdom
  2. The foundation of truth
  3. The foundation of letting go
  4. The foundation of peace

One does not neglect wisdom; one preserves truth, cultivates letting go and trains to live in peace.

Each of the six elements is to be ‘seen as it actually is with proper wisdom ‘this is not mine, this I am not, this is not my self.’

After treating each of the elements this way, ‘there remains only consciousness, purified and bright. What does one cognise with consciousness? One cognizes this is pleasant, unpleasant or neither pleasant nor unpleasant. In dependence on a contact, pleasant, unpleasant (or painful) or neither pleasant nor unpleasant feeling arises. With the cessation of contact so the feeling ceases and subsides.

Through seeing things clearly, there is equanimity ‘bright, malleable, and radiant.’ Going deep into the nature of infinite consciousness, one does ‘not form any condition or generate any volition tending towards either being or non-being. Consequently, he does ‘ not cling to anything in the world and thus attains Nirvana through non-clinging.

This ‘ noble wisdom reveals as the knowledge of the destruction of all suffering. His liberation is founded upon truth, is unshakeable. That which is true has an undeceptive nature.’

‘I am ‘ is a conceiving
‘I am this’ is a conceiving
‘I shall be’ is a conceiving
‘I shall not be’ is a conceiving

Conceiving is a ‘disease, tumour, dart. One is called a sage at peace who is not born, does not age, does not die and is not agitated. There is nothing present in him by which he might be born so how could he age and die?’

Pukkhusati was overjoyed with the teaching and apologised to the Buddha for treating him only as a friend. The Buddha said: ‘It is growth in the Noble One’s discipline when one sees one’s transgression as such, makes amends in accordance with the Dharma, and undertakes restraint in the future.’ After the night in the workshop, Pukkhusati went out and was killed by a stray cow. The Buddha said Pukkhusati had gone to the Pure Abodes, would not return to this world of greed, hate and delusion and would attain final Nirvana.


SUTTA 148: SIX SETS OF SIX

The Buddha says he teaches the Dharma that is “good in the beginning, good in the middle and good in the end, with the right meaning and phrasing.” An explanation of sense experience and the conditions for its arising.

The Buddha explores the dependent arising of the contact of sense doors with sense objects and the feelings that arise.

He says it is “not tenable” to regard any of the sense as self since they arise and fall according to conditions, similarly with feelings and desires, and objects of attention in the mind. One regards the senses and desires as “this is not mine, this I am not, this is not my self.”

“Dependent on eye and form, eye consciousness arises; the meeting of the three is contact. (Also for other four senses and the mind). With contact as a condition there arises a feeling.

If one holds onto the pleasant feeling then the underlying tendency to desire lies within one.

If one becomes anguished over a painful feeling, then the underlying tendency to aversion lies within one.

If one does not understand the “origination, disappearance, gratification, danger and release, then the underlying feeling towards ignorance lies within one.

If one understands, then the underlying tendency towards desire, aversion and ignorance is abandoned.

Seeing thus, a well taught noble student becomes disillusioned with desires. Through being disillusioned, he experiences an absence of wanting and is liberated. “When liberated, there is the knowledge: “This is liberation.” The spiritual life has been lived, what has to be done has been done. Sixty listeners were liberated while listening to these teachings.


Brief Introduction to 38 more important Middle Length Discourses

24. Rathavinitia Sutta. Sariputta relates seven stages of purity.
25. Simile of the hunter. Compared to mara.
27. In the simile of the elephants footprint, the Buddha said one should follow the elephant to see it to know its size, know just rely on the footprint. The discourse gives the detail of the training for the dedicated practitioner.
31. Three meditators blend like milk and water in the forest.
35. Saccaka fails to defeat in dialogue about the nature of the self.
38. Sacca claims the same consciousness transmigrates. Buddha teaches him dependent arising.
39. Buddha encourages effort in the variety of stage of training for body, speech and mind.
43. Sariputta answers questions on wisdom, feelings and concsiousness.
48. Importance of loving kindness to dissolve discord   
Brahma (God) claims that heaven is eternal. Buddha questions the view.
51. Four kinds of people who engage in conflict.
55 The Buddha's attitude to meat eating.
56. Mental action or volition essential for karma
57. Four kinds of karma
58. Speaking what is true and useful
58. Buddha speaks to   the Prince on modes of speech.
60. How to stay clear of contentious views
63. Buddha's refusal to speculate about beginning of the world, soul, life after death etc.
71. The Buddha said he did not know everything but did have three kinds of knowledge - the past, divine seeing and liberation.
74. Way to liberation through meditation on feelings.
76. Examination of four common views of religious sects.
77. The Buddha refuted the view it was because of virtue that people revered him, even those who left him, but the depth and breadth of his teachings.
82. Ratthapala said money and marriage had no interest for him compated to the Dharma.
96. The Buddha refutes caste, brahmins and should develop metta instead.
102. An examination of speculative views about the future, the past and nirvana
103. How to resolve conflicts in the sangha.
104. The causes for disputes and what is necessary for harmony
105. How one overestimates accomplishments in the Dharma
112. The Buddha said one should ask questions of those who claim liberation.
117. Claim to complete liberation should not accepted or rejected outright, and explains eightfold path
119. The benefits of meditation on the body
120. Exploration of the elements, dependent arising
128. The Buddha said Prince Jayasena cannot know depth of dharma due to desire and life of luxury.
128. Impediments to meditation.
129. A fool has as much chance of liberation as a blind turtle putting its head through a yoke in a stormy ocean.
133. On non-clinging to the past, future and dependently arising present. This is a single excellent night.
142. 14 kinds of dana for the sangha and the benefits of giving.
152. Difference between fully liberated one's relationship to perceptions and the practitioner

May all being live with wisdom
May all beings be fully awake
May all beings know liberation from clinging

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